Saturday, March 23, 2019

College week - Juniors, How to Choose a College and Soon

Choosing a college for your Junior in High School? 

It's March and you have no idea what school your child is thinking about. There are thousands of schools to choose from! Where to begin?

As we get close to the end of the school season, with two to three months left, the kids will be out. And let's face it, once the warmer months hit most kids are not thinking about school. This is tough because most college applications for upcoming Seniors (your Juniors now) open in July 2019 (check all the schools your child chooses because they may be sooner).

The sooner you apply, the quicker the decision and possibly more scholarship money.

This week let's talk about Juniors in high school and how looking for a college can be a daunting task! Seniors, it's not too late, but you will need to pick up the pace and make decisions because deadlines have probably past for you. 

So before summer gets under way, Juniors (and Seniors) really need to get a handle on things and choose some colleges. 

So, where do you start? 

Sit down with your child and create a list of what you as a family are looking for in a college. Finding the best college for your child is a long and difficult progress, so starting now is key. 

Here is a list of suggestions that might help:

1. Academics - Make sure the school has one to three majors your child is thinking about - schools with more than one option is best. For example, my daughter wants to be a physician. However, we know how much schooling that entails. So we need to be sure there is a plan B and even plan C available if she decides last minutes she doesn't want to go to medical school. One college we found has a Physician Assistant program, which might be a great alternative if she decides to go that route.

2. Athletics - Does your child play sports - if it's important to them, make sure they can play in the sport at that school; if it's a NCAA Division school, there are rules, and you may have to complete a certification which may cost money. Complete the online recruiter form and see if they qualify. Email the coaches, send film, start learning if they can play or not. Remember, there are JV teams and recreational athletics at schools your child might be able to play if academics is #1 on his/her list.

3. Size of school - decide with your child what size classrooms they need or want. Some kids learn better in a smaller environment while others like to compete for grades against large classes. Small schools tend to be private, so price might be a challenge there also.

4. Location - determine where your child wants to live - close to home, far away, warm climate, etc.

5. Read reviews - there are countless websites out there (such as Princeton Review) that gives great information and reviews on colleges. Some colleges are reviewed based on items such as most beautiful campus, most diverse, to even best classroom environment. 

6. Talk to students! You can learn a lot from students that attend the college. Check out this website where students review the school!

7. Turnover rate - how many kids return after their first year? That's a tall-tell sign if it's a good school. Find out why the transferred before you decide against it.

8. Acceptance rate - this is important because if your child doesn't get great grades, sometimes admission is tough. Or if your child is a straight-A student, you might want him or her around other similar students. So then you would want to look at schools with a low acceptance rate.

9. Admission requirements - find out if the college bases admission on merit or accomplishments. Some kids do not test high and/or get low grades, but they have done great things outside the classroom. For example, my oldest daughter is a "C" average student looking at engineering, but she builds robots and her robotics team went to Worlds which helped her get into a great school.

10. Honors programs, clubs, extra-curricular activities, interests - this is important, especially when it comes to scholarships. Check the school to see what they honor. Also, it might keep your child's mind on school if they get to do other things besides study such as math club, choir or marching band.

11. Ticket price - the cost of school is extremely high these days, so making sure your child isn't going to be debt for the rest of his/her life is important.

When choosing a college, have your child pick about 10 colleges that seems to be the best fit - this way she/he doesn't only apply to one college and not get in. My oldest daughter only applied to one school, a private college, that was about $50,000 per year. Unfortunately, she didn't get enough scholarship money. We didn't want her to go into a lot of debt after high school, so we didn't let her go. 

Good luck and keep watching for the upcoming blogs on "College Week!"  Next, we'll talk more about finances and ways to pay for college.




Monday, February 13, 2012

Phoenix Rattler Contest Finalist!

I have been away for a little while and I apologize, but I haven't been away from writing. On the contrary. I took a chance and submitted three chapters of Bullied to Death to Christian Writers of the West. And I am a finalist in the 2011-2012 The Phoeniz Rattler contest!
Just when I thought about slowing down, taking a break, stepping away from rejection, God took hold of me and knocked some sense into me! I thank Him each and every day for His blessings. Thank you Christian Writers of the West for providing this opportunity for me.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Inspirational Tuesday

I'm back with the Inspirational quote of the week. So sorry I've been away--tending with family. Thank you for continuing to follow.

Act as if it were impossible to fail. - Dorothea Brande, 1893-1948

Writer Stephanie Grace Whitson

Published writer Stephanie Grace Whitson is on Infinite Characters today. Learn to “Dress Your Beds Fashionably.”

Friday, September 9, 2011

Growl Bigger than its Bite

My online blogging group is doing some fun things with fiction. Check out my latest story of a first kiss interrupted by an animal. http://infinitecharacters.com/2011/09/09/growl-bigger-than-its-bite/

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Reasons for Having Critique Partners

I wrote an article on Reasons for Joining a Critique Group. Go to www.Infinitecharacters.com and see what's new!

Thursday, August 11, 2011

I lost my Grandma last Friday to a 14 year battle with cancer. She was very loved and will be missed.
Through My Grandma's Eyes

Through my grandma's eyes she saw the world like no one else,

She saw a person dressed in rags, dirty from life's woes, and she'd hug and feed them.

If she saw a child not in church, no way to learn about God, she'd find room in her car.

A person that didn’t know the Lord, she'd show them the way.

Anyone in pain, she'd wrap them in her arms and say she wished it were her instead.

She'd give her last sweater, gladly, without second thought to someone who was cold.

If I could be half the person my grandma was, I'd see an enemy through loving eyes.

What a world it would be.

Closing my eyes now, letting the tears stream, I imagine her wearing the wings God made for her. She's crying right along with us—not because her life ended, but because we are sad.

I want to remember her as the most beautiful person God blessed us with, even if for a short time. She was the wife, sister, mother, grandmother, friend that we all were so proud to know and definitely loved.

She taught me how to live and she taught me how to die. Just a glimpse through my grandma's eyes.








Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Developing Pace

Check out Infinite Characters on my group's latest blog on developing pace in your novel. I'm Tom & Jerry, what are you? Also, there are some really neat stories about a kiss being interupted by an animal.

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Tantalizing Love Scenes

I just blogged on how to write Tantalizing Love Scenes on my group blog: http://infinitecharacters.com/2011/07/20/tantalizing-love-scenes/. Please check it out if you have time.

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

New Group Blog

My wonderful critique group and I started a group blog at www.infinitecharacters.com. I'd love it if you could check it out. Mildred did a great interview with talented writer, K. Dawn Byrd.
K. Dawn will be giving away one gift card for a free download of Mistaken Identity to someone who leaves a comment at the close of this interview before midnight, Wednesday, June 22, 2011. Please check back on Thursday, June 23, 2011 for the winning post. The winner must email me within 5 days at mildred@infinitecharacters.com and leave your email address to receive the gift card.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Building your Book Blurb

A group of writers for Writer's Alley came up with a fantastic list of ways to build a book blurb.

While taking in the fabulously seductive smell of books in B&N, I agree, I love to look at the backs of books and see what's I'm in store for me on a lazy Saturday afternoon while the kids play in the backyard and I mingle in the hammock. I need to be brushed away from my busy life, if only for a moment. So, the story is so important. And how do I know about the story? From the blurb on the back of the book. It needs to be fresh and unique. And wow, do I need to be hooked. And nailing the book blurb or “back cover” copy is so important.

"Regardless of whether you draft your logline and surrounding sentences before you begin writing your first word (I recommend drafting at least a rough version of this before you begin writing) of after you’ve typed The End, this step is crucial to get right."



It's like building a home. Here are the materials you'll need:



A strong foundation = a high concept logline
This is you're gotta-read-it hooked sentence. Decision to buy your book or not will hinge on how well you’ve crafted your concept.



Mortar & bricks = compelling characters
It's imperative on how you choose to describe your characters in your back cover copy. "Are we talking Plain Jane and Boring Bob or Intriguing Ida and Captivating Carl?"



Insulation = the current reality surrounding your character(s)


Plumbing = word choice

You don’t want a well written novel, only to have the back blurb be mediocre.


Windows = a glimpse of your voice and writing style
Here's where you give the reader a taste of your writing style.


Electrical = excitement factor or what James Scott Bell calls the “ka-ching” in The Art of War for Writers
Read it to others and see what they think.


Roofing = A hint the reader can trust in the satisfying experience


Let me know what you think.

Source:
http://thewritersalleys.blogspot.com/

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Inspirational Tuesday

There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The
other is as though everything is a miracle.
---Albert Einstein

Poem written by my daughter:
Last Day of School

I love my last day of school,
It is so fun. It is so cool.
I won't have to say bye to my friends.
'Cause in the summer, sleepovers don't end.
I like to go outside to play,
At the very end of May.
We end at the beginning of June.
Both summer and school ends way too soon.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Inspirational Tuesday

"I'm sitting in the dark right now,
but God is my light...
it's not forever. He's on my side
and is going to get me out of this...
He'll turn on the lights and show me his ways."
~Micah 7:9

Monday, May 23, 2011

Joplin

My thoughts and prayers go out to those in Joplin. God be with you.

Thursday, April 28, 2011

Agents looking for Inspirational Fiction

A critique partner from long ago, posted this on her blog. You can find the link to her blog below.

The following literary agencies state on their website that they have at least one agent who represents authors of Christian fiction and/or who has attended a Christian writers’ conference. They may represent secular authors and non-fiction as well, but this list concentrates exclusively on Christian fiction.

The information below is accurate according to information on their websites. The fact that they are on this list does not constitute an endorsement of any kind.

Before you contact any agent, make sure to check their website for their submission guidelines. While I will try to update this list at least yearly, many things can change at an agency between updates. Agents come and go, what each agency is looking for changes regularly, and the status of accepting submissions may change. Make sure you have the most up-to-date information by checking the website before contacting any agency.

Alive Communications
Website: www.alivecom.com/
Agents: Lee Hough, Rick Christian, Joel Kneedler, Andrea Heinecke
Genres: Adult and YA, children’s gift books
Only accepting queries from authors with at least one book commercially published (not self-published) or who are referred by an Alive Communications client.

Andrea Hurst Literary Management
Website:
www.andreahurst.com
Agent: Judy Mikalonis
Genres: adult and YA

Benrey Literary
Website: www.benreyliterary.com
Agent: Janet Benrey, Ron Benrey
Only accepts brief e-mail queries from unpublished authors, queries and proposals from previously published authors, and queries and proposals from unpublished authors referred by current B-L clients.

The Blythe Daniel Agency
Website: www.theblythdanielagency.com
Agents: Blythe Daniel
Genres: adult fiction, children’s books

Books & Such
Website: www.booksandsuch.biz
Agents: Janet Grant, Wendy Lawson, Etta Wilson, Rachel Zurakowski
Genres: adult fiction (Janet & Wendy), children’s fiction (Etta), YA & 20-30 something (Rachel)

Browne & Miller Literary Associates
Web Site:
http://www.browneandmiller.comAgents: Joanna MacKenzie, Danielle Egan-Miller
Genres: Contemporary Romance, Historical Romance, Romantic Suspense, YA, Women's Fiction, Mystery, General Fiction, teen/chick/mom/lady lit, Women’s Fiction,

Creative Trust Agency
Website: www.creativetrust.com
Agents: Dan Raines, Katie Sulkowski
Genres: not listed on their website
Does not accept unsolicited manuscripts or book proposals from unpublished authors, but will accept unsolicited inquiries from previously published authors.

Daniel Literary Group
Website: www.danielliterarygroup.com
Agent: Greg Daniel
Genres: general fiction, inspirational, suspense/thriller (no Children's, YA, Romance, or Science fiction/Fantasy

D.J. Jacobson & Associates
Website: www.dcjacobson.com
Agents: Don Jacobson, David Van Diest, Jenni Burke, Lauren Yoho
Genres: all types of Christian YA and adult fiction, children’s literature

Donald Maass Literary Agency
Website: www.maassagency.com
Agents: Donald Maass, Jennifer Jackson, Cameron McClure,
Genres: all types of fiction

Dreisbach Literary Management
Website:
www.dreisbachliterary.com
Agent: Verna Dreisbach
Genres: literary and commercial fiction with a particular fondness for mystery and thrillers

Eames Literary Services
Website: www.eamesliterary.com
Agents: John Eames
Genres: YA and adult fiction

Farris Literary Agency
Website: www.farrisliterary.com
Agents: Mike Farris, Susan Farris
Genres: thrillers, suspense, mysteries, romance, mainstream, action/adventure,
Currently only accepting submissions from referrals and writers conferences.

Foundry Literary + Media
Website: www.foundrymedia.com
Agents: Chris Park
Genres: character-driven fiction


Hartline Literary Agency
Website:
www.hartlineliterary.com
Agents: Joyce Hart, Tamela Hancock Murray, Diana Flegal, Terry Burns
Genres: commercial fiction (no children’s)


The Knight Agency
Website: www.knightagency.net/
Agents: Deidre Knight
Genres: specializes in women’s fiction, romance, young adult, literary fiction, mystery, fantasy and science-fiction, as well as multicultural and inspirational/religious fiction

Leslie H. Stobbe Agency
Website: None (should be able to see his guidelines for submission at
www.acfw.com/conference/noguidelines.shtml but the link is currently broken)
Agent: Les Stobbe
Genres: all fiction except sci-fi and fantasy

Literary Management Group
Agent: Bruce Barbour
Website:
http://www.literarymanagementgroup.com
Genres: fiction (no childrens’ books)

Living Word Literary Agency
Website: http://livingwordliterary.wordpress.com
Agent: Kimberly Shumate
Genres: adult and YA fiction

MacGregor Literary
Website: www.macgregorliterary.com
Agents: Chip MacGregor, Sandra Bishop
Genres: Contemporary Romance, Historical Romance, Historical Fiction, Young Adult, Contemporary Fiction, Women's Fiction, General Fiction

Mortimer Literary Agency
Website: www.mortimerliterary.com
Agent: Kelly Mortimer
Genres: Contemporary Romance, Historical Romance, Historical Fiction, Contemporary, Mainstream Fiction, Paranormal/Time Travel/Fantasy, Romantic Comedy, Romantic Suspense, Thrillers/Suspense (without romance), Women’s Fiction, Young Adult
Closed to submissions at this time (check website for the few exceptions listed)
Only signs PRE-PUBLISHED writers (those who have yet to snag a contract with a traditional pub house), or haven’t had a book pubbed within the last three years.

Nappaland Literary Agency
Website: www.literary.nappaland.com
Agents: Mike Nappa, Alex Smart
Genres: suspense, women’s fiction
Currently not accepting any new authors for representation unless they are recommended by a current Nappaland author or editor.

Natasha Kern Literary Agency
Website: www.natashakern.com
Agent: Natasha Kern
Genres: specializes in women's fiction (including inspirational fiction, romantic suspense, contemporary and historical romances, and multicultural fiction) and currently seeking historical novels; contemporary fiction and a broad range of inspirational fiction (including suspense and mysteries, historicals, romance, and contemporary novels

The Seymour Agency
Website: www.theseymouragency.com/
Agent: Mary Sue Seymour
Genres: any type of romance including: historical, contemporary category, contemporary mainstream, suspense, paranormal, regency or inspirational

Spencerhill Associates
Website: unable to find website, but you can find information about this agency at: www.agentquery.com/agent.aspx?agentid=638
Agents: Karen Solem
Genres: Chick Lit, Christian, Commercial Fiction, Women's Fiction, Romance, Historical Fiction, Thrillers/Suspense, Multi-Cultural
Not currently accepting unsolicited queries.

Sterling Lord Literistic
Website: www.sll.com
Agents: Claudia Cross
Genres: "books for the CBA marketplace"

Steve Laube Agency
Website: www.stevelaube.com
Agent: Steve Laube
Genres: Christian fiction in all genres

Three Seas Literary Agency
Website: www.threeseaslit.com
Agents: Michelle Grajkowski, Cori Deyoe
Genres: inspirational romance

VanDiest Literary Agency
Website:
http://ChristianLiteraryAgency.com
Agents: David Van Diest, Sarah Van Diest
Genres: "While we mainly handle non-fiction, there are a select group of fiction writers who have a unique [Christian] message which is enhanced because of the format of fiction."

The Waxman Literary Agency
Website: www.waxmanagency.com
Agents: Holly Root
Genres: upmarket and commercial fiction, including women's fiction, mystery, urban fantasy, romance, and YA

William K. Jensen Literary Agency
Website: www.wkjagency.com
Agents: William Jensen
Genres: all fiction except YA and sci-fi/fantasy

Word Serve Literary
Website: www.wordserveliterary.com
Agents: Greg Johnson, Rachelle Gardner, Caleb Seeling
Genres: all fiction

Winters, King and Associates
Website: www.wintersking.com
Agents: Thomas Winters
Genres: specifics not listed on website

Zachary Shuster Harmsworth
Website: www.zshliterary.com
Agents: Mary Beth Chappell
Genres: historical fiction, inspirational fiction, Christian fiction, upmarket women's fiction, Southern fiction, cozy mysteries and young adult fiction
Not currently accepting unsolicited submissions of any kind.

Suzanne Hartmann - Suspense with a Twist - http://www.suzanne-hartmann.blogspot.com

Please feel free to share this list with others. All I ask is that you leave my name and contact information at the bottom of the list.


Monday, April 25, 2011

Track your Queries

Have you used http://www.querytracker.com/? If not, you might want it check it out. It's a great tool to use while searching for an agent.

Saturday, April 23, 2011

4 Simple Ways to Kick the Telling Habit

I received and email from Annie Oortman on 4 Simple Ways to Kick the Telling Habit:



Don’t say the Old Lady screamed… bring her on and let her scream.—Mark Twain.



“Show, don’t tell.” That adage has struck fear in many a writer’s heart. But turning “telling” into “showing” is easy if you’re willing to take a critical look at your prose and perform a bit of rewriting.



1. Get Rid of Filters

The easiest way to kick the telling habit is to find filters in your writing. They’re dull phrases of unnecessary realization: He saw, she heard, Sandy realized, Joe noticed, Henry thought, she felt, they listened, he looked, she observed, they anticipated, etc. Stopping to think in the middle of action is like stopping to scratch or blow our noses. Not something your reader needs to be a part of.



He thought of himself as a strong-willed person. (telling)
He was strong-willed. (showing)


She believed Joe had cheated on her. (telling)
Joe had cheated on her. (showing)

The policeman looked like he didn’t believe me. (telling)
The policeman didn’t believe me. (showing)

2. Say Bye-Bye to Expletives

Expletives are it is/was, it has been, there is/was/were, and there has been sentence starters, and they’re so-o-o-o-o telling because (1) their vagueness hurts your ability to show your story and (2) they put emotional distance between the character and the reader.


It was true he was a strong-willed person. (telling)
He was strong-willed. (showing)

It seemed Joe had cheated on her. (telling)
Joe had cheated on her. (showing)

It was pretty evident the policeman didn’t believe me. (telling)
The policemen didn’t believe me. (showing)


3. Eliminate Dialog Tags

Dialog tags are the he saids, she saids that identify a speaker and are telling at its worst. If you’ve written dialog well, you need only an occasional reminder to the reader of who is speaking. You also don’t need to sneak movement or major information into a dialog tag. Make the movement or other information a separate sentence.


“Hi, Joan,” Helen said, her grocery cart coming to rest by a row of fresh produce.
“Hi, yourself,” Joan said, turning to see her old friend.
“What do you plan to do this weekend?” Helen asked, forcing a smile.
“Tom and I are going out on the boat Saturday,” Joan responded in a strained voice.
“Oh, well, if you’re interested, Brad and I are having a cook-out Saturday night about seven,” Helen said with a shrug.
“We’ll see,” Joan laughed nervously. “Thanks.”

Be careful about –ly adverbs like nervously—they tell, too. This conversation doesn’t even make clear whose POV we’re in.

“Hi, Joan.”
A grocery cart bumped into the display of red and yellow peppers. Joan turned to see an old friend her husband didn’t care for.
“Hi yourself!” Joan picked up a pepper rolling on the floor and returned it to the display.
“Have any plans for the weekend?”
“Tom and I are taking the boat out Saturday.”
“Oh, sure.” A shrug. “Well, Brad and I are having friends for a cook-out Saturday night about seven. If you’re interested.”
“We’ll see.” Joan started moving down the aisle. “Thanks.” She couldn’t look back.


4. Eliminate Passive Voice (as much as possible)

Passive voice (a form of “to be” + past participle… was broken, had been eaten, was explained) is one of the most common ways of telling. Writing in passive voice tells the action, which weakens the conflict you’re illustrating.


Miranda was told her husband had been seen with a neighbor lady several times. (telling)

Took a minute for Miranda to absorb the truth. Her husband spent a lot of time with the chick who lived down the street. A lot. She put her coffee down and headed for the work shed. She‘d kill the jerk. (showing)


The crevasse was being skied over by men desperate to avoid the avalanche. (telling)
Desperate to avoid the avalanche, the men skied over the crevasse. (showing)

Brady was tormented by memories of the accident. (telling)
Memories of the accident tormented Brady. (showing)

Something to Think About

"Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next." Gilda Radner